Sunday, June 30, 2013

Different People

It doesn't matter what's your nationality nor which sexuality and gender you are. No matter where you are from, you will always have your own personality 'cause every individual is a special case. 

You can meet people from all around the world that are different than each others. Every person has their own beliefs and things they like or dislike. You can meet people from the same country but they are totally different and has nothing in common except they are from the same country. We always forget and assume that people from the same country are going to have same personalities and beliefs because they come from the same culture. But that is not true. As I said, every person is different and special, no matter where they are from. It is the same with sexuality,  whether you are Gay, Straight or Bi, you will have your own personality and what turns you on. Of course, we might find few things in common but that doesn't mean we are all the same. Not all gays are the same and not all bisexuals nor straights are the same. 

Just remember do not judge people by their skin color or  nationality or even sexuality. Because we are all human beings. We have our own lives and lifestyles and experiences, and the way we were raised and the culture we come from.

Thursday, June 27, 2013

Death In Our Future

Death and future. We wonder when our time would come and how we are all going to die. We live the present and forget that we are going to die someday too. But what if you knew when are you going to die? What would you do? Will you just let yourself die when it's your time, or are you going to save yourself and avoid your death? However, no one can escape death.

Many people live their lives and want to live forever. We sometimes leave things for later, thinking we might do them in the future. But time passes us and life's difficulties happen and life changes us and our lives. What we have to do is to live the present and forget about our deaths. And accept the fact that we will die someday. Whether we love our lives and try to enjoy every minute of it. Trying to become something of ourselves, Or we are having troubles in life and wanting to die. Just know that we won't live forever. 


So no matter what happens, just live your life in the present. We can't live the past nor the future.
But we can live our present.

Wednesday, June 26, 2013

Victims are Criminals

We've been waiting in the police station for hours now, I started to get tired and sick of everything. All because of the attackers on my family we've all went to the station because the attackers filed a report on us. And now we don't know who will win this case. 

My best friend is in the hospital because he is sick and i haven't talked to him in 2 days. Me and my bro and mother, sister,father are all now waiting in a depressing boring waiting room. The air conditioner in the room, looked old and wasn't working but my sis Judy tried to turn it on and it worked. The weather is so hot and unbearable.  Good thing after this is all over, we r going to Toronto and I'll begin studying there.  First i will get to know the city of Toronto and then the fall semester will start. 


I still can't believe my mother Tara and sister Judy were one day in a mall and needed a phone to call our driver, and they asked the wrong people "a three women" who treated them bad  like they were bugs. they pushed them and refused to help and started to call them names and made fun of them. And that's when a man probably one of the women's husband came. He attacked them and spitted on them, and the women and man spilled Pepsi on them and insulted them. The guy even punched my sister on the face. And now this lead us to where we are now! Like we are some kind of criminals. He is suing us even though we are Victims!

When Law Turn Against You

Law and order. When an attacker thinks he's a victim. And a victim who has no idea how did that happen. How did the victim become the criminal, and the criminal become a victim? What happen next? Does the victim gets his right? Or does the criminal really think he's a victim?  U feel like u know an incident n how it happened, but apparently there are more versions for incidents. People who witness it n their point of view, criminal who think he did the right thing, and the victim who think his right was taken from him and got attacked while protecting his right.  Life is unfair and we sometimes never get what we deserve. It's something that may happen to everyone. Sometimes the law can get it wrong, and u end up losing a case. But never give up, maybe things will turn around and if u lost someday, u may win another day. After my mother and sister got attacked and hit by a man and three women. The guy went to sue my family and filed a report. Can u imagine? One who did wrong think he done good. How can that happen? It's a messed up situation for everyone. Who may win the case and who may lose? We never know what will happen. But we have to have some faith in ourselves and fight for our rights no matter what. And who knows? Maybe u will get it. Justice may get served.                    

If u asked someone for help one day, and they treated u bad and attacked u. What would u do? Just be sure u ask the right people. U sure don't want to be a victim of asking the wrong people for help.

Pictures Are Tricky

Everything looks better in pictures, but life is not a picture. It takes some efforts for a person to deal with the area that surrounding everything around it. When we see life in a picture, like a picture of nature or a city. We look and say it is beautiful, but what we don't realize is that a picture can't tell everything about the place. Because when you go to the area, you will find a picture was just a picture, and it only told u half of the area. We won't know how the weather is and how is the atmosphere there, unless we go to where the pictures were taken. Like for example, if you saw a pictures of Dubai u might feel like it is the perfect place to live but when u go to it u will find the pictures were really just pictures. It is a normal city as it is. it is not a heaven, just like it's not when u see a picture of a jungle or a park. When u visit Dubai, it wont be like in the pictures. The weather  would be so hot, the building are tall but not that tall cause at the end of the day u wont be living a skyline or a view. U would be living the life there. So when you see pictures of anything don't assume u know everything about the place in the picture. You have to go there and see for yourself.

Tuesday, June 25, 2013

The People Behind Your Back

I have a friend who thinks a group of people are talking bad about her behind her back. These things happen most of the time, and it's a very normal thing for insecure people to do. When they feel insecure about themselves, they judge others and talk bad about them. I think if there are some people who are talking behind your back, let them stay where they belong, ''Behind Your Back''. 

Just forget about the people you dislike. Do not care about them nor what they say. And Who knows? Maybe you think they talk bad about you because you hate these group of people, so you think they are talking about you. There is no need for you to think about them. Why would you think about them when they mean nothing to you? So don't give a shit about what they say. And if they are really talking about you behind your back, then let them stay where they belong ''behind your back''. Don't let them bring you down.

Ignore those people who like to gossip. Let yourself get busy by doing other things, and you will eventually forget about them. These insecure people just want to bring a person down. If they didn't pick on you, they will find another one to pick on. They apparently have no lives and nothing better to do except making others feel bad about themselves. So don't feel bad about yourself, these people are not worth it. They might just envy others' good qualities.

Smile and let the world say what they want to say. If you are happy and enjoying your life, why would you care about the people's gossips? 

Live your life the way you want, not the way others want you to live.

Can't we rely on someone?

We try our best to have faith in others and ourselves. We ask people to help us sometimes and give us a hand, but sometimes they may let us down, even families and friends.

When we ask our friends for help and they let us down, we can't help but wonder if we can actually rely on them or even others. While in some situations a friend may end up helping us, other moments where they end up failing us. When you get lost and end up asking strangers for directions, they whether end up helping you or couldn't even benefit you. It is the same thing when you ask friends or families for a little help, they may help you or couldn't help. At the end of the day, you should remember they are just humans like you, and they make mistakes too. Like if a friend tried to help you and give you want you need, but then bailed out and couldn't help. Just remember maybe your friends really couldn't help you, not because  they didn't want to help. We sure know that but we can easily forget it sometimes and get mad at them. But It would be your fault if you relied completely on your friends. Because the only one you can completely rely on is... Yourself.

Sure friends and families may always have your back in situations but you will not find them there all the time, you have to have some faith in yourself and try to help yourself without asking anyone for help. But if you had to ask and absolutely needed help, then you should ask. But if they couldn't help try not be so disappointed.

So try to help yourself most of times because you may not find help from others all the time. You may not have your friends and families around you all the time, but you are for sure will always have yourself. In most situations, you are on your own. 

Of course, one person can't do everything on his/her own so we end up asking for help, but we should not completely count on the help we may get.