When we ask our friends for help and they let us down, we can't help but wonder if we can actually rely on them or even others. While in some situations a friend may end up helping us, other moments where they end up failing us. When you get lost and end up asking strangers for directions, they whether end up helping you or couldn't even benefit you. It is the same thing when you ask friends or families for a little help, they may help you or couldn't help. At the end of the day, you should remember they are just humans like you, and they make mistakes too. Like if a friend tried to help you and give you want you need, but then bailed out and couldn't help. Just remember maybe your friends really couldn't help you, not because they didn't want to help. We sure know that but we can easily forget it sometimes and get mad at them. But It would be your fault if you relied completely on your friends. Because the only one you can completely rely on is... Yourself.
Sure friends and families may always have your back in situations but you will not find them there all the time, you have to have some faith in yourself and try to help yourself without asking anyone for help. But if you had to ask and absolutely needed help, then you should ask. But if they couldn't help try not be so disappointed.
So try to help yourself most of times because you may not find help from others all the time. You may not have your friends and families around you all the time, but you are for sure will always have yourself. In most situations, you are on your own.
Of course, one person can't do everything on his/her own so we end up asking for help, but we should not completely count on the help we may get.
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