Secrets we are not meant to find

Me and the actress Amanda Bynes might be soul mates LOL! Just few hours before Amanda tweeted something I was actually thinking of, I was thinking about the little secrets we may not like to find about the people we love and know. I'm hiding few secrets of my own from my family and friends, and I do not hide because I'm afraid of them, it is because I'm afraid for them to find out secrets they may not like. Everyone needs secrets.

''If you go digging for something that's not yours to find out, don't blame anyone other than yourself if you don't like what you find.'' - Amanda Bynes' tweet.

I could not agree more! That was exactly what I was thinking of. My family sometimes are too eager to know everything about me, like my pass code for my iPhone or the password for my laptop. Or They want to know what I write in my blog! And all I could think of is ''hey! I'm allowed to keep few secrets for myself, besides I'm not hiding things from them because I'm afraid of their reaction, I'm hiding because they will sure not like what they may find. plus there is something called privacy.''  My laptop have porn in it, my phone has sex conversations and nasty jokes with my friend, and my blog is about Sex & Alcohol. - And hey! I'm not ashamed. 

I borrowed my 16 years old brother's phone yesterday. And for example, I could have checked everything in his phone but I was too afraid of what I may find. I may not like it and ruin my innocent little brother's image inside my head. Moreover, it would be awkward if I found out something I shouldn't have found or not for me to find and know. Like what if I searched in his phone and saw him and his friends sharing porn pictures or saying nasty jokes? LOL!

There are few little secrets that we should not find out about. It is not because we can not handle the truth, but there are few things that are not for us to find out about. We should not know every little detail about the people we know. We are not meant to dig deep in others' lives, because we may really not like what we may find and ruin their images inside our heads. Sometimes, it is good to keep secrets from people in our lives that they do not need to know about.

  

Unless if you were keeping a secret from your wife for 18 years that you are secretly gay like in ''Happily Divorced''. - Does Anyone watch this show? No? Just me! Okay. then you should come out!

You never know, she might divorce you and you two can become best friends. - nah! I don't think so.

''You will never believe the things that I have done, I will have you run, if you knew single one of all the things that I've done.'' - April Smith, Terrible Things.