Misunderstandings

There are many situations where two people can end up breaking up or arguing about some decisions. We wonder and ask ourselves ''Who was right and who was wrong?'' we ask our friends and waiting for them to support us and tell us the truth. But what if there were no right nor wrong side except misunderstandings and different point of views. It depends on the person whether to choose what's right and wrong and their own thoughts and versions of the each situation that happened or still happening.

Sometimes you can see few people arguing about some few things, and when you go ask each one of them ''How did all the fighting start?'' Each person will have their own definition of what happened and how did it all start. Every person will tell you what they think happened, and what they think is right and wrong. We get confused and get caught up in the middle and start to think which side are we on, and should we even take sides? It depends on the situation for sure, but sometimes it's better not to take sides. While in other situations, it'd be better if you took a side if someone got hurt. It is really hard to be in the middle of a fight but we try our best to fix the problem.

For example, if two of your friends had a fight, you can ask them what happened and let them both sit and talk instead of just shouting and yelling at each others. It would be best if you didn't take sides and just try to let each friend see the other's point of view. You never know, it may just be a misunderstanding. One of the best ways to deal with a problem like that, is to point out the mistakes of each friend, and what you think they did wrong.

Many friendships and relationships get destroyed by just a little misunderstanding, so when that happens we should not just jump into conclusions but try and sit to talk it out. Even if you thought you were right and not in the mood to talk, because the only way to let the other person hear you and see your point of view, is for you to hear theirs first then you can tell them yours. Hopefully, they will understand you and may reach to an agreement that suits both of you.