Wednesday, July 3, 2013

Let your dark side come out and play!


Too many people are afraid to show their wild sides, fearing that they might look like whores or inappropriate people to others who will start judging them...

Do you ever feel like you have a side that you hide and want it to come out? Sometimes, we can see many different personalities all in one person. Good and nice or rude and mean. Conservative and closed minded or open minded and liberal. ''Rules breaker, uptight, funny, naughty, and serious.'' We really have many sides in ourselves.

We can't decide which side do we want the world to see us with. Whether the world is seeing you as a sexual being or gentle man or a lady, you still wish you can let the world see your other sides too and not judge you for one of your sides. Sometimes people don't act like themselves, because they are scared of others and what they might think of them. Most of us are afraid that people are going to judge us and start thinking that we are whores and have no respect to ourselves. But who gives a shit what everyone else think? All what matters is what you think of yourself.

There is a lot to reconsider and many things to think about. But what if we let everyone see all our sides? Would that be so bad? We always think ''Should I do that? What if I did that? What if I said that? What would others think of me?''

We should do whatever make us comfortable, and the way we want to see ourselves and for the whole world to see us with. Stop thinking about what others might think of you, we can't just stay discreet all the time and hide many things from all the people around us. We have to have a balance between our two different sides. If you were such a good and traditional man or woman, don't be afraid to show your other sides even if you thought they were weird. Show your traditions and your good side but don't be afraid to show your other sides too. The sides where you feel it's more like you, and you would feel more relaxed and comfortable in your own skin. Not to mention, you would feel more like yourself. It is really hard trying to become something you are not.

It is much better when you display all your sides.  And guess what? people will get to know you as who you are, not as someone you are not. Moreover, you will meet friends who might accept everything about you.

I think whatever you do in your life, don't be afraid to show the world all your sides, and let them know who you really are. There is no need to stay hidden for the rest of your life. Remember there are people who will accept you for all your sides. Everyone have many sides, the good ones and the bad ones. But there are others in the world who won't judge you for all your sides, and just accept you as you are.

We are all humans with many personalities. 

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