Fly Nightclub

We all know it as Babylon Nightclub, the famous club from the hit TV show ''Queer As Folk'', but its real name is ''Fly Nightclub''. In case you didn't know, it was originally located at the gay village ''Church and Wellesley'' in the city of Toronto. Ever since I watched Queer as folk, I had always wanted to visit Babylon. I hope it is as good as in the show. In all the episodes during the series they had showed us how great the club is, with the many competitions and great music. For example ''King of Babylon, Biggest dick, and Best abs contests.'' And for the music, I liked it when they once played ''Forever Young'' by Temperance, while Brian and Justin were dancing and kissing. They also had many hot muscular guys in the background dancing in their underwear. For me, I think Fly Nightclub might be the perfect gay club, and I hope I will get the chance to visit it soon.
If you are interested in the club too, don't forget to check their website http://www.flynightclub.com/

Save Weeds Petition

There is this petition on Facebook that is trying to bring back Showtime networks' TV show ''Weeds'' for a 9th season or a spin-off series. I really enjoyed watching that show, and I hope they will bring it back someday. I miss Nancy Botwin and all the other characters in the show. What I like about Nancy is how strong she is and how she can do what ever she wants without giving shit what everyone else think of her. She had done a lot of mistakes in her life during the series but she always kept on going no matter what. I was always excited to see what she was going to do next, and she had always surprised me. If it was up to me, I would bring the show back for many more seasons because I never get sick of it. The show had always entertained me and I'm a big fan of it. So how about you? Any other 'Weeds' fans out there who would like the show to come back? Tell me what you guys thought of the ending? And if you want it to come back, please 'Like' this Facebook page at www.facebook.com/saveweedspetition

If you haven't watched the show before, I advice you to watch it. the TV show has humor, action, and adventure, and a lot of hot sex scenes. It is about a Mother who lost her husband and had to take care of her two sons. She started to sell Weed to make some money, and that's when she became one of the best weed sellers in the suburbs. 

Once a loser, always a loser?

I was always the shy and alone guy in school. I only had one friend, but so many enemies. Many of the students I was with in school were closed minded and I always had problems with them, not all of them but few of them. None the less, I was the weirdo lonely guy. In another word, I was a loser. When life goes on, do you think a loser stays a loser? Some change and become these awesome people, while others stay the same. I think I will never change to the better and I may just stay the loser guy as always.

I was checking my Facebook today, and that's when I saw a profile of one of the students that used to be in my school. He is now in a cool city and a great university. He was kinda popular in school and always participated in school activities while I was just the shy and lonely student who all teachers felt sorry for him while they felt he was the IT guy. And now 3 years later, I'm still the loser guy who has few friends and still shy. I sure did many things and experiences but I still feel the same. I can not get over the feeling that I'm still the same stupid kid from school. Does this feeling ever go? I guess only time can tell. The sad part is, even when time passes by and years pass us, some things never change. We may change but our lives will always remind us of the past, and even if things changed around us. Does our fate change and our lives change? some times our luck just stays the same and we just stay the losers. Of course we should all move on from our past and try to become what we want to be and try to make ourselves feel better and do not care about anyone else. But it's never easy. Take it from me, changing yourself is hard.

However, the past will always stay where it is, in the past. Behind us all. I once heard an old saying that impressed me. It goes like this ''Yesterday is gone, Today is all what we have, Tomorrow is not for granted''. In other word, we should live today and leave tomorrow for tomorrow. So what all matters is now. Even though I feel that ''now'' sucks, but we all need some hope in our lives. Just my hope is to wait and see what's Life has in store for me. If you feel the same then you should work hard and wait for things in your life to get better, because we all know if we sit and did nothing, our lives will remain the same or turn to worse. If you once were a loser, you will stay a loser. And if you were once popular and a winner, you may become a loser. That's the funny thing about life. All what we can do is live it and receive some slaps from time to time. This is life and it is sure tough. Life is not for the weak.

Porn is a good thing to watch!

Most people watch Porn. It makes all of us see our sex fantasies come to live - kinda, at least on a screen.  Some guys and girls learn more about sex during watching Porn. It gets them out of the box and in the mood to try new things and positions. It can be effective and a positive thing to watch for people who might be having troubles with their sex lives. While there is no harm to have some fun watching it too.

Some people watch it for fun and learn, while others like to watch their fantasies and get turned on. From the age of 18, people in most countries can watch Porn. Virgins can learn about sex which make their first times may be much easier for them. Watching Porn Stars confident about their bodies and showing it all while fucking can give a person some confidence. Porn allows people not to be scared from Sex while in the same time they should be careful while doing it and use Condoms. Most Porn movies use condoms, which may let others be aware of the importance of using them.

Parents would think watching Porn may be a bad idea and inappropriate thing to watch. But what they do not know is how helpful Porn can be. Instead of just going out and have sex with some strangers, Singles can watch Porn and masturbate. Which is for sure more safer than just going out and find someone they may not know just to have sex with them. You know what I say? ''If you can't have it, the least thing you can do is to WATCH it.''

For some watching Porn is a secretive thing to do. They might hide if from their partners and families, and friends. While others are openly about it and not afraid to admit that they watch it. I think you should do what ever makes you comfortable and do not be ashamed if you are watching Porn because everyone does it. Heck, some partners end up watching porn together to improve their sex lives. So why can't you watch it too? There is no harm in watching Porn.  

Misunderstandings

There are many situations where two people can end up breaking up or arguing about some decisions. We wonder and ask ourselves ''Who was right and who was wrong?'' we ask our friends and waiting for them to support us and tell us the truth. But what if there were no right nor wrong side except misunderstandings and different point of views. It depends on the person whether to choose what's right and wrong and their own thoughts and versions of the each situation that happened or still happening.

Sometimes you can see few people arguing about some few things, and when you go ask each one of them ''How did all the fighting start?'' Each person will have their own definition of what happened and how did it all start. Every person will tell you what they think happened, and what they think is right and wrong. We get confused and get caught up in the middle and start to think which side are we on, and should we even take sides? It depends on the situation for sure, but sometimes it's better not to take sides. While in other situations, it'd be better if you took a side if someone got hurt. It is really hard to be in the middle of a fight but we try our best to fix the problem.

For example, if two of your friends had a fight, you can ask them what happened and let them both sit and talk instead of just shouting and yelling at each others. It would be best if you didn't take sides and just try to let each friend see the other's point of view. You never know, it may just be a misunderstanding. One of the best ways to deal with a problem like that, is to point out the mistakes of each friend, and what you think they did wrong.

Many friendships and relationships get destroyed by just a little misunderstanding, so when that happens we should not just jump into conclusions but try and sit to talk it out. Even if you thought you were right and not in the mood to talk, because the only way to let the other person hear you and see your point of view, is for you to hear theirs first then you can tell them yours. Hopefully, they will understand you and may reach to an agreement that suits both of you.

Dubai

Dubai is a cool city that has so many things and a lot to offer. I used to live in it for a few years, but I had to leave it and move to somewhere else. Dubai was just not what I was looking for unfortunately. I was looking for a free country that is full of life, nature and beauty, and open minded people that are liberal. Dubai was not that, it was only half of these things I wanted. It would take Dubai 50 years for the people there to freely live like how Americans and Canadians do. It may be a cool city with a great skyline and tallest building in the whole world, but what is the point when half of the country is closed minded? So Dubai doesn't have it all. That is why I had to leave it even though it became my home.

One day I saw a man and woman kissing in ''Dubai Mall'' but it was fast. I bet they were afraid someone might see them; Because it's illegal in Dubai. I was in one of the electric stairs and going to a downer level than the one i was in, and that's when they were in front of me. They made out quick like for 5 seconds. Yeah it sounds stupid to care for just a kiss but when you are in Dubai, it is illegal to kiss in public. Can you imagine? How come an opened minded city can be so closed minded? Sometimes I didn't understand and I just got confused. Is Dubai a free country or is it closed minded one? I sometimes did not know, because you would feel like you are living a life that all the people in cool cities are living, but at the same time we have these stupid rules that hold us back. So Dubai is stuck in the middle. For example, between Europe/USA/Canada and Saudi Arabia. All I wanted was to live in a normal cool city without the closed minded rules and people. I did not want to be stuck in the middle, it was really hard. Because sometimes I was happy and feeling that I lived in a free county, but then Dubai slapped me in the face every time with something closed minded. Then I become surprised and wonder ''How can that happen? Aren't we supposed to be in Dubai?'' But Dubai is like that. That was Dubai.

Once in a New Year's eve, I was waiting in the crowded queue at the metro and there was this beautiful foreign woman. She was dressed up for a party and there were these closed minded people who started to make fun of her in Arabic so she won't understand what they were saying. They were like ''Aw She is late for the Nightclub'' and laughing at her. I felt mad because it was so stupid of them like they never saw a woman goes to a party before, and like they never went to a club at all. So I was like... Ugh! This is Dubai. Open minded people and closed minded ones are equal in numbers. Half of Dubai were opened minded while the other half were not.

Don't get me wrong, I like Dubai and as I said before it was my home for few years. But I can't help but hope that someday we can all be understanding to each other and leave people live the way they want without interfering. Of course Dubai is an Islamic country but it can be more understanding to others. It would be nice if they at least let the not-Muslims people be a little free to do what they want as long they are not hurting themselves nor others, so they can feel more like home.

Should Alcohol become illegal in the United States?

A friend once asked me this question ''Should Alcohol become illegal in the United States?'' Which  made me wonder what others think of Alcohol. As for me, I think it should not be illegal for all people to drink.

Alcohol is bad for the kidney if you overdosed, but Alcohol helps people to have some fun. I think alcohol should not be illegal in the United States of America nor in any other country in the world.

Underage Teenagers buy fake IDs just to enter bars and clubs, it is something dangerous to do. I do not encourage underage drinking. But when it comes to adults, they should be allowed to drink alcohol. Adults should be able to know right from wrong, as long they do not hurt others nor themselves. They can make their own choices so when they choose to drink alcohol, it's their choice and they can take full responsibility for their own actions.

So my point of view is, Alcohol drinks should not be illegal in the united states for all ages but only young children, because adults can take care of themselves.